The spouse-ish and heads/tails tests

I’m enjoying reading “How to Begin” by Michael Bungay Stanier. In it, he refers to the ‘Spouse-ish’ test as one way of getting illumination. How your partner/BFF/sibling responds to your declared goal can be a helpful guide. Not that their response shows the right way forward for you necessarily (they have their own agenda after all), but it gives you something to consider with curiosity. … Continue reading The spouse-ish and heads/tails tests